Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Sole Mates

Sole Mates - sandals




Hello!  I know, I know, no posts for a week!  And there isn't even any good TV on as an excuse.  When your shows finish for the season do you feel like your friends have gone away and you're stuck at home?  I do.  Anyway, enough about that.  Here is a simple summer uniform, cute and comfortable neutral dress and endless shoe possibilities.  Add a blazer and you are ready for the office.  (well, not necessarily with all of these shoes, but the flats would work in an office.  depending on the office, I guess.) Hope your Wednesday is awesome!

Thursday, June 13, 2013

Cheesy Thursday - super cheese



Have you been uh, lucky? enough to have heard this song yet?  (Note, I know that the question mark was not properly placed, but it had to be placed there to express the inflection you would have heard in my voice when I used the word "lucky."  It either had to be a question mark or I would have had to find an emoticon that would convey my sarcasm and I could not.) Let's dissect a bit, shall we?  "make me wanna roll my windows down and cruise..."  I don't even know what this means.  I don't even know where to begin to try to find out what this means.  I don't want to find out what this means.  And the part about the first encounter between the singer and his subject, the "song"if you will?  Now that is a story one would want to tell his future children.  Imagine the episode of How I Met Your Mother that starts off, "Kids, when I first saw that bikini top on her she was poppin right out of the South Georgia water..."  How romantic!  Anyway, this song comes on the radio sometimes and as much as I find this to be super duper cheesy, I still find myself singing along.  It is a low point.  But we all suffer lows when it comes to cheesy music, do we not? (oh, another note, I am not a betting woman, but if I were, I would place a large sum of money that song will make an appearance in Hart of Dixie Season 3.  In fact, I could almost write the scene now.  Wade drives by in his sweet ass ride and Zoe is getting out of the "pond" that separates their two houses which causes Wade to flashback to a montage of scenes of them together before he went and messed it all up. etc.)  Happy Thursday! (note, HIMYM  is a TV show and the title is surely subject of a copyright that does not belong to me and I make no claims to it. Same for the song and lyrics referenced and Hart of Dixie.)

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Sole Mates - summer casual light blue jeans and yellow sandals

summer casual




Morning!  How was your Tuesday?  Today I have a little Sole Mates post featuring these super cute yellow and nude flat sandals.  And light blue jeans.   I am usually all about the really dark wash denim because I think it is more forgiving (and I can use some serious forgiveness in the thigh department) but there is just something about light blue in summer.  It makes me think of the beach or the lake or the park, anywhere outside where fun can be had.  When I was putting this together I had about ten different tops but ultimately settled on this one because it was coral.  I am really into coral right now for some reason, which is strange.  Maybe not strange, but not really typical for me.  I am more of a grey person.  So anyway, I think this is a pretty neat summer casual outfit.  And I kinda wanna marry it.  Happy Wednesday!

Monday, June 10, 2013

Hello again



Hello again.  Last week I thought I was back to regular posts but then that didn't happen.  Best intentions but no real follow through.  Last week felt like one of those weeks it went from Monday to Friday in about a couple of hours.  Don't you hate it when that happens?  It was like running a marathon without really getting anywhere.  And then this week started off with a bit of a negative note because I was looking at the price of airfare and car rental and could feel myself going to the dark side.  I walked to work and although I usually enjoy those 4 miles of quiet my mind was a-buzz.  I went over so many scenarios to come up with a plan that was something I could swallow and every one left a bitter taste in my mouth.  And then I sat at my desk to work and couldn't.  Because I was still thinking of those prices.  And then I remembered something funny that someone said last week and I applied to my current situation.  "Dear Somali pen pal,  How are you?  I'm frustrated by the current price of airfare and car rentals necessary to take a vacation to a beautiful little town in the woods and see family that I love so much.  And I couldn't decide whether to wear my green shoes or my blue shoes this morning.  Both matched my outfit.  You know how it goes.  Hope things are great in your village!  Keep cool this summer."  Yeah, perspective.  Sometimes I need some.


How was your weekend?  Mine was good.  Friends over on Saturday and then Sunday we took advantage of the weather and our memberships by walking to the MFA and seeing the Blue & White exhibit and then walking home, and then seeing Stories We Tell at the Coolidge.  I am so happy with our Coolidge membership because seeing a movie for free on Sunday nights is the perfect ending to a weekend.  The Monday morning part brings its own set of issues, but as I said, with perspective I can get through the funk.  What about you?  What have you been up to?

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

Something from the sea



Hello again.  When you go to the beach do you bring anything home with you?  I usually bring home a sunburn.  And rocks.  And shells.  And sticks.  And sometimes bones.  Driftwood is some kind of magic isn't it?  I think so.  And bleached out bones are pretty cool too.  You want to know the most exciting thing I did in the last couple of weeks?  I cleaned (or started cleaning to be more accurate) the basement storage area.  Yes, I am that pathetic.  It was exciting because it was done in order to make room for a new piece of exercise equipment because my knees have been really bothering me.  I swear I have like 62 year old knees on a 38 year old body.  But the real highlight of cleaning up was finding my beach bag.  Not exactly a bag you'd take to the beach, but more like a bag with the beach in it.  Sticks and rocks I brought home from a beach on Lake Superior, shells from Horse Neck Beach and some bones I found a long time ago on the Cape.  And also some pretty amazing stuff that people have given me, like that big sand dollar up there.  (How neat is that?!) And so I put it all together in this bowl and then took a photo in the sun.  I feel calm just looking at it.  And I'll pretend the sound of the air conditioner grate over my desk is ocean waves.  The constant car horns do sort of throw off the whole beachy vibe I'm trying to create here at work, but it is still nice to think about it.  Hope your day is calm and soothing like a beach day with no sunburn.

Monday, June 3, 2013

Think about it...




Good morning! I guess it's been a while since I've put fingers to keys on this here blog.  I don't have any great excuses but I'm sure I could come up with reasons if pressed.  But what have you been up to?  Promoting world peace, finding the cure for cancer, making someone smile?  I weight them all the same.  I was surfing around Pinterest early this AM and came across this image and thought oh yeah, I have a blog, I should share this.  So you know the drill, think about it.  (I make no copyright claims for this image, it says Katrina Mayer .com)

Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Hello, beauty



Today is Wednesday, but I'm pretending it is Tuesday, so here is a shoesday post.  I can't say it enough, green shoes!  These beauties are over at Ped, best shoecandy around!  Hope your day is super.

Monday, April 22, 2013

Think about it...



Morning.  Good?  Sure, let's go with that.  What a week huh?  I mean it can only go up, right?  Crazy days.  7 crazy days.  And it can be easy to get into a funk, go doom and gloom and settle in and not want to crawl out.  But it isn't going to help.  Or change anything.  So I say, see the good instead.  I don't take credit for that, I must have heard it somewhere else and stored it away until today when I sat at my kitchen table and looked out at the flowers on my deck and saw it.  That little bit of good that made me remember all the other good.  I hope you are happy today and that you see the good in your day.  

Thursday, April 18, 2013

Monday.



No cheese this week.  I haven't really felt like writing this week.  There are several times a day where all of a sudden I feel my throat closing up and my eyes get tight.  I go about things with a "business as usual" attitude, but it really isn't.  It can't be.  I was home on Monday because I live on the route and getting around is difficult.  I'm sure I've ranted about it over the years as complaining is something I do best on this blog.  So I stayed in working on projects in the apartment and listening to the crowds outside, trying not to get worked up about the people standing in my front "garden" and I use that word loosely, very loosely, because it is not looking like much these days.  My cell phone rang and it was Dave, telling me that he was OK.  I had to adjust my world for a moment to comprehend why he was telling me something that I always just assume to be true.  Then he told me that there were reports of explosions near the library and still not comprehending, because at that moment I was hearing massive sirens, I asked, "the Brookline library?!" No.  The Boston Public Library.  Right by his office.  What the what?  It didn't make sense.  I took to twitter to find out what was going on and when I was reading the reports of the explosions I was still hearing the runners and crowds cheering out my window.  It was surreal.  They had no idea.  They were just running.  About 2 miles from the finish line with no idea what had happened.  I felt like a small elephant had sat his rump down on my chest and was settling in. And just as I'd get used to the pressure I would read something new or see a new photo and I would feel him press all his weight down onto my heart.  My cell was buzzing with texts from people checking in, my phone was ringing.  And I replied each time that I was OK.  What can you really say in a text message?  I feel like an elephant is sitting on my chest?  I think something would get lost in translation with a response like that.  I was OK in theory, and certainly in a physical sense.  But in other ways how can you really be OK when something like this happens?  It was a while before the news spread and the route shut down and it became eerily quiet for marathon Monday.  And I just sat there feeling that elephant and wondering why.  What is the point in planting a bomb?  What is that person trying to accomplish?  What change do they see as possible through such a violent act?  I look at problems with an analytical eye.  But the more I looked at this situation it just seemed stupid and I did not get it at all.  It made no sense.  None.  And I still don't really get it.  I don't think I ever will.  And the elephant?  Sometimes he seems to be losing weight.  But then he isn't.  

Monday, April 15, 2013

Think about it...



Good morning.  Happy Monday and all that.  Decent weekend?  I took last week off from the blog because the beginning of the week was spent with friends visiting from North Carolina and the remainder of the week was spent in the following ways: getting heartbroken over a mirror that got away, preparing to file taxes (this is my LEAST FAVORITE thing to do.  in the whole world.), worrying about my connector parts as I've been referring to them, specifically ankles, knees, and elbows as they are constantly bothering me now and I am so obsessed with losing the few pounds I've gained in the last year that I am breaking out in a sweat just thinking about having to miss workouts, being reunited with same friends for one more visit before they headed home, actually filing said dreaded taxes, and finding another mirror I like just as much as the one that got away and cost less than half the price of the first one.  So, time flew.  But I was the pilot.  Other than the taxes, the pain, and the panic, I had a good week.  And as painful as preparing for the taxes was (BTW, the pain is my own fault.  Instead of being super organized and doing all my reconciliations on a monthly basis, I wait until the last minute.  The very last minute and then stress about the days of work I have to do.), I was super excited to finish them.  Done and Done!  Oh, and I am attempting to get out of my own way for next year.  Yep, I sat down and reconciled the first three months of this year.  So I am already ahead!  Might not be any closer on the other stuff, but baby steps, right?  Oh, and have any of you watched the show Extreme Couponing?!  Somehow I ended up watching it on Netflix the other night while I was working on other stuff and I was deeply disturbed.  And confused.  So someone explain this to me.  Are these people using all this crap they are storing in their garages and under their kids beds, or are they just stock piling it like hoarders?  Do they trade it or sell it to make a profit?  I don't understand.  I mean I get it when they have a bunch of kids.  But even with a lot of kids, what the H-E-doublehockeysticks are they going to do with 60 bottles of cheap mustard?!  Unless they are selling hot dogs out of their tailgate at the world's longest yard sale I don't see that mustard being anything more than a dust collector.  And they kept talking about how much money they saved.  But if they aren't using this stuff did they really save any money?  And the amount of time that they were spending on organizing coupons and then shopping was pretty crazy.  OK, really REALLY crazy.  So, I am asking you to please educate me because I just didn't get it and I'm sure it is because I was missing something.  I mean there is a whole TV series devoted to this so it must be something worth learning about.  Right? Oh, and run Boston Marathoners, run!

Thursday, April 4, 2013

Cheesy Thursday - we've got tonight



who needs tomorrow?  I sure do!  This is pure cheese.  Man, looking at Kenny don't you feel immediately grateful that this "look" is long gone?  And poor Sheena apparently didn't get the memo on the dress code for the duet.  He is wearing a three-piece suit that appears to be either high-quality polyester or silk, and she is wearing what looks like it was trying to be a leather suit.  Yikes.   And is he like 7 feet tall or is she a dwarf?  He does know how to twirl a microphone cord, huh?  Hope you enjoy the cheese!

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Before and After - a little mcm chair

Morning.  How goes it?  I've been meaning to post photos of my latest DIY before and after, a little chair I bought in the U.P. last summer for a whopping $3.00.  You read that right, only three dollars!  And since my in-laws are pretty spectacular and willing to drive it out at Thanksgiving there were no shipping fees involved (although it did arrive with a paint stain that I'm pretty sure was new. wink.).


Before.  Here it is.  It might be hard to see from this angle, but the wood veneer was in pretty bad shape with a good deal of peeling and chipping.  And there was a really sticky tape on it that had to be scraped off.


Before - sanded.  I sanded off the paint stain, ahem.  And then got the tape residue off, and tried to get it as smooth as possible.


Before - primed.  One coat of primer and it was ready for paint.  (oh, you'll notice that I painted the metal rivets on the chair back.  I thought about not painting them but ultimately decided they would be too distracting on the painted back.  it was also easier to paint them then to try to protect them.  and I decided I could always scrape the paint off later if I changed my mind.  but I don't think I will.)


After.  Here she is in her new yellow paint (with the blue painters tape still in place).  I'm pretty happy with how it turned out.


After.  And now in situ.  I couldn't decide whether to get a knit pillow or more of a linen pillow and then I found both in one at enhabiten.  I love this little pillow.  (I should have unplugged those things before taking the photo.  cords and wires ruin everything!)


That polka dot throw is wool and so cozy for watching TV on the couch.  I think the chair looks good in front of the file cabinets.  They are pretty cheap cabinets from Target that I stacked.  I changed the handles to make them look vintage and a bit more polished.  So there you have it.  A little mcm chair (made in Indiana, probably out of a school) all dolled up.  Happy Wednesday!

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Shoesday.



I have a love - hate relationship with clogs.  I love them because they are so cool looking.  I hate them because a fall in a pair of these is going to hurt!  If I got a pair of these there would be at least one twisted ankle in my future.  Guaranteed.  I don't know what my problem is, but I tend to "fall off my shoes" a lot when I walk.  I don't take delicate and graceful steps.  Nope.  Not me.  I have more of a pounding the pavement style walk.  But these sure are nice to look at, no?  Hope your week is already wonderful.   (click to link to shoes)

Monday, April 1, 2013

think about it...




Good morning.  How was your weekend?  I hope it was fantastic.  I created the image up there as a reminder to myself that when things are frustrating and it feels like no real progress is being made to just keep going.  Maybe we can all use that reminder every once in a while.  When there is a task ahead that is too daunting or a big project that is taking up all of our time, just keep going.  You'll get it done.  Hey, that is actually great for anyone taking a bar exam.  It is the WORST!  And even though you get sick of studying for 7-10 hours a day, just keep going.  So there you have it.  

Friday, March 29, 2013

weekend.



Oh, Friday, it is so lovely to see you!  I've been waiting for you since Monday morning.  So good to see you again.  Oh, do I appear to be gushing?  Well, you've got me.  Some weeks you just really need two days away from the ball and chain.  No, not Dave, I mean work.  And there is a holiday on Sunday and it is a certain holiday that really gets me nostalgic.  And I usually spend the day in some sort of funk thinking back on all those Easters with my grandparents and then that gets me thinking about how my grandma is doing now and it is really sad.  But this year I am anticipating the troubles before they occur and I am going to plan something to take the funk away.   And I need to clean up the deck from winter.  I think it is probably still too early to plant anything, but I could at least remove the dead plants from last year and clean up the broken pot.  Oh!  We had two large planters with seedum in them and guess what?  They are sprouting!  I had no idea they would winter over out on the deck in uncovered containers, but lo and behold, there are shoots that seem to get bigger by the day.

Here are some links to ooh and aah over.  At least I did.  Hope you have a great weekend.

pretty ring that I could get lost in.

awesome rug that I think would look great in my bathroom.  if I were rich.

cutest little night light ever.

most adorable fox pillow ever.  in a kids room or a cabin or anywhere.  so cute!

moody feather photo iphone case.  totally rad.

Thursday, March 28, 2013

Cheesy Thursday - Hungry Eyes



You know what nobody does?  Sing this song seriously.  You thought I was going to say, "put Baby in a corner," didn't you?  But I didn't.  I didn't need to.  I knew you'd fill in the rest.  This is one of those movies that I liked way too much as a kid.  And now when I think about it I think, how was I even allowed to see this movie?!  It is not exactly appropriate for kids.  But this is currently my big struggle.  Because my almost 13 year old nephew follows me on Instagram and I follow him back and sometimes I see what he is posting (memes, not his own photos) and I freak out because they are so not appropriate!  And I think this is insane, where are his parents, and then I think about the totally stupid stuff I did at that age and it makes sense and I didn't turn out THAT bad, but I still get real panicky.  And I realize that if I was ever a parent I would be the absolute worst overprotective spying total killjoy parent ever.  But luckily other than a cat or dog, no one has to deal with that possibility.  Trust me, it is best for all parties involved.  So anyway, super cheesy song, super cheesy movie, but both are pure entertainment.  Happy Thursday!

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Perspective



Hi-ho.  How goes it this week?  Something you might not know about me, I have a hard time falling asleep.  And because of that I often drag my feet about going to bed because I know I am just going to lay there and wait to fall asleep.  And this has been a thing for years.  I can remember staying up all night a lot.  Even as a child.  So I've just always assumed that I don't need that much sleep.  Well, that seems to be changing.  Lately I feel absolutely exhausted.  Physically exhausted.  Like my eyes hurt to be open, exhausted.  It is all catching up with me.  Every single part of growing up (notice how I didn't say "aging?"  Yeah, when you are just under 40, people who are over 40 get really pissed when you say "aging," like they have some kind of patent on the whole thing.  Whatevs.) is hitting me.  The physical changes.  As in, I work out more than average, and I stopped eating candy, and I am not a soda drinker or anything and despite all that effort, I've still managed to gain a couple pounds and I feel like my hips are spreading out and becoming wider by the day.  And the little bit that I have in the chest area seems to want to head south for the winter.  (I've convinced myself that if I sleep in a pullover wireless bra this will combat their south-heading desires.  Not sure I am correct, but mind over matter!!)  So I guess what I am saying is that it is really easy to focus on this stuff, all the changes that are just a part of life.  But it takes perspective to not get too crazy.  Because even if my hips are spreading wider by the hour (which I realize is not actually possible, or at least the odds of probability are against it.  Deductive reasoning, I learned that on Bones), and I need to get more sleep, it really isn't that bad.  I mean, at least I can make myself laugh abut it (and hopefully you too).  And also, I can watch documentaries about children in Africa that need heart surgery, or people in NYC that survive by redeeming cans and realize that I should not complain.  About anything!  But it is healthy to complain a little bit.  As long as you can put it in perspective.  Hope you are having a good week.  I'm having dinner with a friend I haven't seen in months because she is the busiest person I know and I am so excited to finally catch up with her.  And also, when I think about how many hours she works and think about how tired I am, I can't even fathom how she does it!  Seriously, she amazes me.  Hope you have a healthy perspective and some good times today.

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Shoesday



These are sure to put some spring in your step!  I love the colorful flowers and the yellow stitching sort of throws me over the edge.  Total cuteness!  Hope your Tuesday is super.  I am off to a 7 AM meeting.  I feel like a zombie and I probably look like one too.  7 AM!!

Thursday, March 21, 2013

Cheesy Thursday - One More Night



Cheesy song, check.  Cheesy TV show video montage, check.  Have you heard any rumors about whether or not Hart of Dixie is going to be renewed for Season 3?  I really hope it does because I love this show!  Number 1 guilty pleasure.  Hope your Thursday is fun!

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Sole Mates

Sole Mates weekend




A weekend look.  Nothing better than jeans and a stripey sweater with a sweet pair of kicks on the weekend.  Hope your Wednesday is super!

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Shoesday



Happy Shoesday!  These sandals are super cute.  And I do love a cute flat sandal.  However, last night we got about 6 inches of snow dumped on us.  Oh, and today it will be raining most of the day.  So even though it is nearly the end of March there is no sign of spring!  Except that it is lighter a little later each day.  And it makes such a difference!  How is your week going so far?  So far so good over here. We dropped off our kitchen chairs to be sandblasted and powder coated and I am excited to see them all spiffed up, but for now it means that we have to eat like we're bellying up to a bar.  We should get the chairs back in a couple weeks and I'll post before and after photos.  Do you have any book recommendations?  I could really use a good book to sink into.  

Monday, March 18, 2013

Monday



Happy Monday!  Instead of a good quote to think about I'm going all out entertainment.  Funny cat videos.  Because you will laugh out loud.  And how better to start a week than by laughing out loud?!  

Thursday, March 14, 2013

Cheesy Thursday - Journey



Morning.  We received a really neat gift, a membership to the Coolidge Corner Theatre.  It has been fantastic!  We can see movies on Sundays after 6 for FREE.  For free!  And there are monthly events that are free for members, like Science on Screen, which is a nerd's paradise - movie and a lecture.  The number of pocket protectors in the theatre is staggering.  (I am kidding, of course.)  In January we saw Rushmore and heard a lecture about adolescent development.  This month we are seeing This is Spinal Tap.  And the lecture is on the science of sound and hearing.  Yes, I know, I put the "erd" in "nerd."  So anyway, with this membership and all its perks we are seeing more movies and making Sunday night a regular date at the movies.  It is a nice way to end the weekend and transition back to the daily grind.  So last Sunday we saw Don't Stop Believin' Everyman's Journey, about the band's search for a new lead singer.  It was really good.  It helped that I am a fan of the music.  And it brought back memories from high school.  I can't remember if it was Junior or Senior Prom (and I don't know why that seemed to require capitals, but it did.) we had to pick a song, and Open Arms was one of the choices.  Now, I distinctly recall my homeroom teacher warning us that if we chose that song, the lyrics would not be printed in the keepsake prom booklet thingy because, well because, they hint at people being in bed together and this was a Catholic school.  Guess what song we picked?  Yep, the controversial one.  I will have to dig around in the storage space to see if I can find it, but I am pretty sure that the prom booklet did end up with the lyrics printed in it.  So anyway, go to the movies, sing cheesy songs, remember your prom and have a great Thursday!



I am posting the same song sung by Arnel Pineda, the new lead singer so you can hear why he was chosen.  It is a slower version, but you can hear it in his voice. 

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

Sole Mates - big black boots and bright tights

Sole Mates - weekend dress and boots




Sole Mates.  This week I am obsessed with tall boots.  I scored a super awesome pair on ebay that arrived the other day and I have found true boot love.  If you follow me on Instagram (prettyneatdesigns) this is not news because I posted a photo of them yesterday.  And declared my love for them.  So I put together this outfit based on what I plan to wear with my new tall boots: casual dress, bright tights, and a graphic scarf.  Pretty good look if you ask me.  Hope your week is rad.

Monday, March 11, 2013

Think about it...



Good morning!  It has been a while.  What have you been up to?  Lots of stuff over here but not much of it bears repeating.  I like that quote up there.  Also, Deepak Chopra and Oprah are having a 21 day meditation challenge and it starts today.  You can sign up for free.  I am doing it, how about you?  Hope your Monday is awesome.